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　　科学证明，如果亲子之间能够经常展开深度交谈，就能让孩子更独立、自信、更快乐。但现实中更常见的却是，亲子对话往往被琐事占据，家长与孩子的沟通障碍重重，充满紧张情绪，并时常伴随着误解与冲突。

　　作为哈佛大学讲师、语言病理学家和一位母亲，丽贝卡·罗兰深信，父母的语言拥有塑造孩子人格与未来的力量；从学步的幼儿到能畅所欲言的青少年，父母与孩子的每一次深度沟通，都在极大地拓展孩子的认知与能力。

　　在本书中，罗兰为父母们提供了与孩子进行深度交谈的工具，帮助父母以积极开放的心态，在提升好奇心、同理心、自信心、社交力等七大方面，与孩子展开有效且内涵丰富的谈话。她结合真实案例、最新科学研究成果，向父母们展示了何为深度交谈，以及如何进行深度交谈，从而帮助孩子构建起成长所需的品格和能力。

　　罗兰博士的沟通方法将帮助你：

　　家长：

　　·在日常生活中与孩子展开更多“内涵丰富的深度交谈”

　　·促进孩子好奇心、同理心等七大能力发展，帮助孩子积极应对挑战

　　·与孩子建立更好的关系，成为情绪稳定、可靠的家长

　　·更好地表达自己，理解孩子，促进你们的共同成长

　　孩子：

　　·学会运用语言技能，更完整地表达自己

　　·更少用行动宣泄情绪

　　·学会提升自己的学习力

　　·变得更自信和自立

　　·懂得关心与理解他人

　　这是一本家长们的必备手册，帮助解决孩子的日常行为问题，终结家庭里的战争，打造一个更好、更平静、更圆满的关系，更重要的是，能够帮助家长为孩子铺设一条成功长大的道路。

　　作者简介

　　丽贝卡·罗兰（Rebecca Rolland）

　　哈佛大学教育学院研究生项目讲师、哈佛大学医学院教师

　　波士顿儿童医院神经科口语和书面语专家

　　担任世界银行课程开发顾问

　　作为言语病理学家，她在临床上为幼儿到高中的孩子提供咨询和帮助，也为老师的专业发展提供协助。

Content introduction

It has been scientifically proven that regular, in-depth conversations between parents and their children can make them more independent, confident, and happy. However, it is more common in reality that the parent-child dialogue is often occupied by trivia, and the communication barriers between parents and children are heavy, full of tension, and often accompanied by misunderstanding and conflict.

As a Harvard lecturer, speech pathologist, and mother, Rebecca Rowland is convinced that parents' language has the power to shape their children's personalities and futures. From toddlers to teenagers who can speak freely, every deep communication between parents and children greatly expands children's cognition and ability.

In this book, Roland provides parents with the tools to have a deep conversation with their children, helping parents to have an effective and informative conversation with their children in a positive and open mind that promotes curiosity, empathy, confidence, and sociability. Combining real-life examples with the latest scientific research, she shows parents what deep conversation is and how to have it to help their children build the character and abilities they need to thrive.

Dr. Rowland's approach to communication will help you:

Parent:

· Have more "rich and in-depth conversations" with children in daily life

· Promote the development of seven abilities such as curiosity and empathy, and help children respond to challenges actively

Build a better relationship with your child and become an emotionally stable and reliable parent

· Express yourself better, understand your child, and promote your growth together

Child:

· Learn to use language skills to express yourself more fully

· Less action to vent emotions

· Learn to improve your learning ability

· Become more confident and self-reliant

· Know how to care and understand others

This is a must-have handbook for parents to help solve their children's daily behavior problems, end family wars, build a better, calmer, more fulfilling relationship, and most importantly, help parents lay a path for their children to grow up successful.

About the author

By Rebecca Rolland

Lecturer, Graduate Program, Harvard School of Education, Faculty, Harvard Medical School

Spoken and written neurologist at Boston Children's Hospital

Curriculum Development Consultant for the World Bank

As a speech pathologist, she consults and assists clinically with children from early childhood through high school, and also assists teachers in their professional development.