作品简介
与其努力合群,不如拼尽全力完善自己!
真正的朋友,不是先来或者认识最久的人,而是来了再也没有走的人。
本书用48篇文章,分别从成长、奋斗、人性、情感、社交等全方位全面剖析,用文字带领迷茫不安的年轻人活出自己,告知年轻人不要亏待每一份热情,也不要去讨好任何冷漠,不要因为孤独去努力迎合一些不属于自己的群体。
每个人的生活都不会因为别人变好,也不会因为别人而变得不好,过得舒不舒心,只有自己知道。不必努力合群,不要太在意别人的看法,不要总活在别人的生命里。
有多少故事没有缀上理想的结尾,又有多少人忘记了最初的自己。何必为了迎合别人,去变成别人想要的样子?
王浩帆,知名专栏作者、青年作家、插画师、20万粉丝博主。
2016年,王浩帆因一篇文章被谢娜点赞而走红。创作以来,其文章多次创造阅读量超100万的奇迹,多篇文章被微博大V转载,微博读书也多次推荐其文章。他因长相清秀、性格温柔又被媒体评为“暖男作家”,拥有庞大的粉丝后援团,且多次受邀进高校宣讲。
Introduction of works
Instead of trying to fit in, try your best to perfect yourself!
A true friend is not the one who comes first or knows the longest, but the one who comes and never leaves.
This book uses 48 articles, respectively from the growth, struggle, humanity, emotion, social and other all-round comprehensive analysis, with words to lead the confused and restless young people to live out their own, telling young people not to shortchange every enthusiasm, do not please any indifference, do not try to cater to some groups that do not belong to their own because of loneliness.
Everyone's life will not become better because of others, nor will it become bad because of others, and only you know whether you are comfortable or not. Don't try too hard to fit in, don't care too much about what others think, don't always live in other people's lives.
How many stories do not fix the ideal ending, and how many people forget the original self. Why try to be what someone else wants you to be?
Wang Haofan is a well-known columnist, young writer, illustrator and blogger with 200,000 followers.
In 2016, Wang Haofan became popular after an article was liked by Xie Na. Since its creation, its articles have repeatedly created the miracle of reading more than 1 million, many articles have been reprinted by Weibo V, and Weibo reading has also recommended its articles many times. He is handsome in appearance and gentle in character, and is rated as a "warm male writer" by the media. He has a huge fan support group, and has been invited to lecture in universities many times.