作品简介
对于童年时没有从父母处得到无条件的爱的人,自恋型的人对他们的吸引力就像磁力一样,这种力量似乎是无法挣脱的。作者将这种磁力称为“人际磁石综合征”,它具有一种原始的力量,能把依赖共生者和自恋者吸引到一起。作者在本书中阐释了依赖共生和病态自恋,以及两者之间病态的“关系之舞”。由原书家庭、个人经历带来的病态依赖共生,都可能影响到个体与父母、恋人甚至周围朋友的人际关系。在本书中,作者讲述了病态依赖共生以及病态自恋的形成,带领读者进行内心的探究,从而发现自身的依赖共生问题,通过解决依赖共生问题,获得积极健康的人际关系。
罗斯·罗森堡(Ross Rosenberg),毕业于波士顿大学,注册临床专业咨询师。他是一位从业近35年的心理治疗师,是依赖共生、创伤和成瘾方面的专家,在芝加哥开设了名为Clinical Care Consultants的咨询中心。他介绍依赖共生、自恋型人格障碍等内容的视频在视频网站上的播放量已达到2600万,所著图书被翻译成12种语言,畅销十几个国家。
Introduction of works
For those who did not receive unconditional love from their parents in childhood, narcissistic people have a magnetic attraction that seems impossible to break. This magnetic force, which the authors call "interpersonal magnet syndrome," has a primal power to draw codependent people and narcissists together. In this book, the author explains codependent symbiosis and pathological narcissism, and the pathological "relationship dance" between them. The pathological dependence symbiosis brought about by the original family and personal experiences may affect the interpersonal relationships with parents, lovers and even friends around the individual. In this book, the author describes the formation of pathological dependence symbiosis and pathological narcissism, and leads readers to conduct inner exploration, so as to discover their own dependence symbiosis problems, and obtain positive and healthy interpersonal relationships by solving the dependence symbiosis problems.
Ross Rosenberg, a graduate of Boston University, is a registered clinical professional consultant. A psychotherapist for nearly 35 years, he is an expert in codependency, trauma and addiction, and runs a counseling center in Chicago called Clinical Care Consultants. His videos on codependency and narcissistic personality disorder have been viewed 26 million times on video sites, and his books have been translated into 12 languages and sold in more than a dozen countries.