内容简介

　　这是每个阶段每个间歇性育儿崩溃的家长都应该阅读的教育指南。它在过去的9年内被30万家长奉为养育孩子的“金科玉律”，掀起了一场终止亲子对抗、告别育儿压抑的养育革命。

　　维尼老师是集认知疗法、人本主义心理学、行为主义心理学于一体的实践型教育专家，通过几十年的学习、研究和实践创立了“顺应心理”养育法，并成功帮助千万个亲子关系从对抗走向合作。他呼吁家长把“孩子心理”从“孩子问题”中剥离出来，并与孩子站在一边去解决问题。当家长学会了顺应心理的教育模式，能够考虑孩子的感受、懂得孩子的心理规律，孩子才合作，也更容易实现教育的目标。

　　在本书中，维尼老师像唠家常一样传达了顺应心理的本质、思维和实施方法，通过300多个真实成功案例教读者积极解决育儿中遇到的崩溃、孩子发脾气、学习差、写作业不积极、叛逆、偷窃、网络成瘾、自理能力差、没礼貌、缺教养等等问题。

　　维尼老师是一位武功高强的养育高手，不用任何专业名词却分享出科学专业的养育思想;他又是一位教育大师，书中没有任何对家长错误养育方式的指责，满是共情、指导与建议。这也难怪一位妈妈捧读至深夜却不舍掩卷。

　　通过学习本书，家长可以很好地实现顺从孩子但不溺爱、允许孩子但有规矩、理解孩子但不放纵的教育目标，让孩子感受到家长是自己人的同时，守护住身为家长的权威，最终到达家长不崩溃、孩子不压抑的家庭状态，养育优秀与幸福感并存的孩子。

　　作者简介

　　维尼老师（胡春光）

　　知名家庭教育专家、心理专家，“顺应心理家庭教育理论”创始人，中国关心下一代工作委员会特聘专家。目前专业从事家庭教育咨询、心理咨询以及儿童抽动症康复咨询。

　　代表作:《顺应心理，孩子更合作》《顺应心理，轻松度过青春期》《内心的重建》

Content introduction

This is an educational guide that every parent with intermittent parenting breakdown at every stage should read. In the past nine years, it has been regarded as the "golden rule" by 300,000 parents in raising children, setting off a parenting revolution to end parent-child confrontation and bid farewell to parenting repression.

Winnie is a practical education expert integrating cognitive therapy, humanistic psychology and behaviorism psychology. Through decades of study, research and practice, he has created the "adaptive psychology" parenting method and successfully helped thousands of parent-child relationships from confrontation to cooperation. He called on parents to separate "child psychology" from "child problems" and stand with their children to solve the problem. When parents learn to comply with the psychological education model, can consider the child's feelings, understand the child's psychological law, the child can cooperate, but also easier to achieve the goal of education.

In this book, Winnie conveys the nature, thinking and implementation methods of adaptation psychology like talking, and teaches readers to actively solve the problems encountered in parenting through more than 300 real successful cases, such as breakdown, children's temper, poor learning, homework is not active, rebellion, theft, Internet addiction, poor self-care ability, bad manners, lack of education and so on.

Teacher Weni is a strong martial arts parenting master, without any professional terms but share the scientific professional parenting thoughts; He is also a master educator, and the book contains no criticism of the wrong ways of parenting, but is full of empathy, guidance and advice. No wonder one mother couldn't stop reading late into the night.

Through the study of this book, parents can well achieve the educational goals of obeying children but not spoiling, allowing children but having rules, understanding children but not indulging children, so that children feel that parents are their own people at the same time, safeguarding the authority of parents, and eventually reaching a family state where parents do not collapse and children do not suppress, raising children who coexist with excellence and happiness.

About the author

Miss Winnie (Hu Chunguang)

Well-known family education experts, psychological experts, "adapt to psychological family education theory" founder, China Care for the next generation of the Working Committee of the special expert. Currently, he specializes in family education counseling, psychological counseling and rehabilitation counseling for children with TIC syndrome.

Representative works: "Adapt to psychology, children are more cooperative", "Adapt to psychology, easily through adolescence", "Inner reconstruction"