内容简介

　　本书以第一人称展开，“我”是一位“社交”黑客大师，也是防范“社交工程”(social engineering)陷阱的先驱者。社交工程是一种影响人类心理的技术。在本作中，作者从心理学和社交工程学的角度出发，告诉我们其实可以更好地妥善运用社交工程的技巧。社交工程不见得只能用于获取他人信息，还可以让我们变得更加善解人意、慷慨大方，更加受人喜爱，在群体中受到更多重视与欢迎，让我们在日常生活中能发挥比想象中更大的影响力。不论你想要进行一场成功的面试、拉近与陌生人的距离还是与他人建立友好关系，在这个人与人之间距离越来越远的世界中，本书能帮助你更轻易地与人接近，达到你想要的社交效果。

　　在本书中，你将学会如何在家中和工作场合使用这些秘密沟通技巧。你将学到：如何通过肢体语言有效解读他人；如何通过精准措辞迅速赢得他人支持；如何提要求才能更容易让别人应允；如何识别并阻挠企图操控你的人；如何从头到尾全面策划一场重要谈话，增加成功的几率等。无论你是想职场升迁、获得好处、让人吐露心迹，还是想通过学习沟通技巧改善人际关系，书中的方法都将成为你的秘密杀手锏。你会发现“黑”入人心可以帮助任何人结交朋友、影响他人、实现目标。它，真的能帮到你。

　　作者简介

　　克里斯托弗·海德纳吉是Social-Engineer（社会工程学）,LLC的创始人和CEO。在从业的16年中，他编写了世界上第一个社会工程学框架，创建了第一个基于社会工程学的播客和通讯，并写了四本关于这个主题的书。他成立了世界上第一个社会工程学框架Social-Engineer.com，致力于帮助公司提高安全性，并教授给他们“黑客”的做法。他研究并破解了最近发生的多起恶意攻击事件。他推荐的实践测试法被500强公司采用，用来教育员工安全方面的知识。他与BackTrack安全团队一起参与了各种类型的安全项目，有16年以上的安全和信息技术实践经验。他也是主动式安全（Offensive Security）渗透测试小组的培训师和首席社会工程专家,著有《社会工程：安全体系中的人性漏洞》。他还曾在世界各地（包括五角大楼）演讲和授课，讨论我们如何“破解”人心，帮助每一个人成为更好、更有同理心、更清晰的沟通者。

Content introduction

Written in the first person, "I" is a master of "social" hacking and a pioneer in guarding against the pitfalls of "social engineering." Social engineering is a technique that affects the human psyche. In this book, the author takes a psychological and social engineering perspective to show that we can actually use social engineering skills better. Social engineering doesn't have to be just about acquiring information about other people, it can also make us more empathetic, generous, likable, valued and welcomed by groups, allowing us to exert more influence in our daily lives than we ever imagined. Whether you want to land a successful job interview, connect with strangers, or build relationships with others, in a world where distance is increasing, this book can help you more easily connect with people and achieve the social results you want.

In this book, you'll learn how to use these secret communication skills at home and in the workplace. You will learn: how to effectively read people through body language; How to quickly win over others with precise words; How to ask for something to make it easier for someone to say yes; How to identify and thwart people who are trying to manipulate you; How to plan an important conversation from start to finish, increase the chances of success, etc. Whether you want to move up the corporate ladder, gain benefits, open up, or improve your relationships by learning communication skills, the tips in this book will be your secret killer. You'll find that being "black" can help anyone make friends, influence others, and achieve goals. It can really help you.

About the author

Christopher Heidnagy is the founder and CEO of Social-Engineer,LLC. During his 16 years in the business, he wrote the world's first social engineering framework, created the first social engineering-based podcast and newsletter, and wrote four books on the subject. He founded Social-Engineer.com, the world's first social engineering framework, dedicated to helping companies improve security and teaching them how to hack. He studied and cracked a number of recent malicious attacks. The practice tests he recommends are used by Fortune 500 companies to educate employees about safety. He has been involved in various types of security projects with the BackTrack security team and has over 16 years of practical experience in security and information technology. He is also a trainer and chief social engineering expert for Offensive Security's penetration testing team and the author of Social Engineering: Human Holes in Security Systems. He has also lectured and taught around the world, including at the Pentagon, on how we can "hack" the human mind to help everyone become a better, more empathetic, clearer communicator.