内容简介

一本写给女性的行动纲领。愤怒与快乐的极限对话，九场棋逢敌手的较量！

上野千鹤子说：“无论何时，女人的人生中都有数不清的乐事等待着我们去发掘。

本书就是为了想活得自由的你准备的指南书。”

汤山玲子说：“成为主人公的人生绝对会更有意思！”

★著名女性主义学者上野千鹤子&文化领域KOL汤山玲子的辛辣对谈录。结合个人成长经历和社会现实，深入探讨女性“怎样自在地活”。

★妨碍女性生存的顽疾、爱情与婚姻、快感与性爱、老龄化的平等……九大主题，剖析女性面临的社会现实，直面时代弊病。“我打算不管遇到什么事，都不闭上双眼。”

★百无禁忌的话题+一针见血的点评，带来酣畅淋漓的阅读体验。为什么说浪漫爱情只是一种妄想？女性主义者也能打扮得很时髦吗？性爱的频率与个人幸福感的关系是什么？激烈的观念碰撞和言语交锋，带来1+1＞2的效果，引领读者思考身边的日常。

★话题之作，改变众多读者对“女性主义”的看法。“它是妇女自由生活的运动，要按照你想要的方式生活，不是同侪的压力或其他人告诉你该怎么做，而是‘你想要什么’，让我们成为能够理解这一点并采取行动的成年人。”

女性长久以来都沉浸在结婚生子、组建家庭的想法中。即便好不容易从中解放出来，却不知道接下来去往何处。女性主义学者上野千鹤子和出身音乐世家却不走寻常路的汤山玲子，结合自身经历与社会现实，围绕文化资本、女性主义、性、老龄化等多个主题，在嬉笑怒骂间分享超强“生存技巧”。即便外部环境千变万化，年龄增长，不为自身设限的女性仍能拥有值得期待的未来。

作者简介

上野千鹤子

1948年出生于日本富山县。京都大学研究生院社会学博士。1993年任东京大学文学部副教授，1995年至2011年任东京大学研究生院人文社会系研究科教授。现任东京大学名誉教授、NPO法人女性行动网络(WAN)理事长。著有《厌女》《父权制与资本主义》《一个人的老后》《近代家庭的形成和终结》等。

汤山玲子

1960年出生于东京。作家，导演。日本大学艺术学院文学与艺术系兼职讲师，文化领

域意见领袖。著有《一个女人的寿司》《穿女装的女人》《跨越40岁！》等。

Content introduction

A platform for action for women. The ultimate dialogue of anger and happiness, nine matches of chess!

Ueno said: "At any time, there are countless joys in a woman's life waiting for us to discover.

This book is a guide book for you who want to live free."

Yuyama Reiko said: "Being the protagonist's life is definitely more interesting!"

★ The famous feminist scholar Ueno Chizuko and the cultural field KOL Yuyama Reiko spicy conversation record. Combined with personal growth experience and social reality, in-depth discussion of women "how to live freely".

Diseases that hinder women's survival, love and marriage, pleasure and sex, equality of aging... Nine themes, analyze the social reality faced by women, face the ills of The Times. "I'm not going to close my eyes no matter what happens."

★ No taboo topics + sharp comments, bring a refreshing reading experience. Why romantic love is a delusion? Can a feminist look stylish? What is the relationship between the frequency of sex and personal happiness? The fierce collision of ideas and verbal exchanges bring the effect of 1+1 > 2, leading readers to think about the daily life around them.

★ Topic work, change many readers' view of "feminism". "It's a movement for women to live freely, to live the way you want to live, not because of peer pressure or other people telling you what to do, but 'what do you want,' and for us to be adults who can understand that and act on it."

Women have long been obsessed with the idea of getting married, having children and starting a family. Even when you're finally free, you don't know where to go next. Feminist scholar Chizoko Ueno and Yuyama Reiko, who came from a musical family but took an unusual path, combined their own experiences and social reality, around cultural capital, feminism, sex, aging and other themes, sharing super "survival skills" between laughter and anger. Even as the external environment changes and age, women who do not set limits for themselves can still have a future worth looking forward to.

About the author

Chizuko Ueno

Born in 1948 in Toyama Prefecture, Japan. Doctor of Sociology, Graduate School, Kyoto University. He was an associate Professor in the Department of Literature at the University of Tokyo in 1993 and a professor in the Department of Humanities and Society at the Graduate School of the University of Tokyo from 1995 to 2011. She is an honorary professor at the University of Tokyo and president of the NPO Women's Action Network (WAN). He is the author of Misogyny, Patriarchy and Capitalism, One's Old Age, and the Formation and End of the Modern Family.

Reiko Yuyama

He was born in Tokyo in 1960. Writer, director. Adjunct Lecturer, Department of Literature and Art, Nihon University College of Arts, Culture Department

Domain opinion leaders. He is the author of "Sushi for One Woman", "Women in Women's Clothing" and "Over 40!" Let's wait.