内容简介

　　·爱究竟是怎么一回事？为什么我们对亲密关系不断失去信心？

　　·自由是爱与成长的基本前提，是自古以来人们歌颂追求的目标，但为何如今的我们却对自由感到恐惧，并选择逃避？

　　·面对庞大社会时，你是否感到过孤立与无助？因为自我与他人的不同而诚惶诚恐？你是否曾陷入疑惑，疑惑自己的思想是真的源于内心，还是这个社会灌输给自己的？

　　·单身社会、婚育率低迷、内卷风潮、广泛焦虑……参与其中的人们又分别经历着怎样的心理困境？

　　弗洛姆早在20世纪中期就对爱与自由的命题有过深刻思考。不同于众多精神分析学家，弗洛姆主张将人放在心理学与社会学研究的中心，致力于将精神分析学说与马克思主义结合在一起。

　　时代的发展赋予了人们越来越多的自由与理性，人们也因此不得不独自面对生存挑战，感受孤独与焦虑。在日益加深的孤独中，是在个人意志的引导下完成人格的逐渐成熟与完整，还是依附于权威主义，放弃独立思考的自由，做一个外表满足但内心空虚的“正常人”这或许是值得我们一生思考的问题。

　　弗洛姆关于爱与自由的呐喊穿透了半个多世纪，警醒着每一个仍然保有自我、向往爱情、追求自由的人。

　　作者简介

　　李煜玮

　　第十期中德高级心理治疗师连续培训项目（中德班）成员、国家二级心理咨询师、曾奇峰心理工作室签约咨询师。

　　自2018年起从事动力学取向心理咨询工作，并长期专注心理学与心理咨询的科普活动。持续在中国心协国合基地公众号、武志红公众号、曾奇峰心理工作室公众号等多家业内权威媒体上发表科普文章、开设课程，文章阅读量累积超过100万+。

　　曾跟随国内著名心理学者曾奇峰、施琪嘉、李鸣等人学习，主要受训方向为心理动力学。

　　曾于“看见心理”听书计划开设弗洛姆作品解读类课程，收听人次平均达10万+。

Content introduction

· What is love all about? Why do we keep losing faith in our intimate relationships?

Freedom is the basic premise of love and growth, and it is the goal that people have been singing and pursuing since ancient times, but why are we now afraid of freedom and choose to avoid it?

· Have you ever felt isolated and helpless in the face of a large society? Are you afraid of being different from others? Have you ever wondered if your thoughts really come from within, or if society has instilled them in you?

· A single society, low marriage and childbearing rates, a wave of introflection, widespread anxiety... What psychological dilemmas do the people involved experience?

Fromm had thought deeply about the proposition of love and freedom as early as the mid-20th century. Different from many psychoanalysts, Fromm advocated putting man at the center of psychological and sociological research, and devoted himself to combining psychoanalysis with Marxism.

The development of The Times has endowed people with more and more freedom and rationality, so people have to face the challenges of survival alone and feel lonely and anxious. In the increasingly deepening loneliness, whether to complete the gradual maturity and integrity of personality under the guidance of individual will, or to attach to authoritarianism, give up the freedom of independent thinking, and be a "normal person" who is satisfied in appearance but empty in heart, may be a question worthy of our lifelong consideration.

Fromm's cry about love and freedom has penetrated more than half a century, alerting everyone who still maintains himself, yearns for love, and pursues freedom.

About the author

Li Yuwei

Member of the 10th Sino-German Senior Psychotherapist Continuous Training Program (Central Durban), national second-level psychological consultant, contracted consultant of Zeng Qifeng Psychological Studio.

Since 2018, he has been engaged in dynamic oriented psychological counseling, and has been focusing on popular science activities of psychology and psychological counseling for a long time. Continue to publish popular science articles and offer courses on the public account of China Heart Association National Cooperation Base, Wu Zhihong public account, Zeng Qifeng Psychological Studio public account and other authoritative media in the industry, and the cumulative number of articles read more than 1 million +.

He has studied with famous domestic psychologists Zeng Qifeng, Shi Qijia, Li Ming and others, and his main training direction is psychodynamics.

In the "Seeing Mind" listening program, he offered a course on the interpretation of Fromm's works, with an average audience of 100,000 +.