内容简介
一个当了55年女儿，26年妻子、妈妈、儿媳，还有20多年大学教授的郑莲喜从来没有因为世俗对女性的绑架，而放弃做自己，以及对梦想的追求。
“丢下两个孩子去留学，你是想离婚吗？”“保姆有她做的好吗？”“自私的妈妈/妻子！”……不绝于耳的杂音，也会让她怀疑“我是一个好妈妈，好妻子吗？”而随后“先是我自己，才是任何人”，即刻让她坚定自己的选择。但是，当她听到25岁的女儿想要结婚时，她的心里顿时害怕起来，她觉得有些事情必须要让女儿知道——一个女性在婚姻生活中要有怎样的觉悟和行动，才能掌控自己的人生。
怀着复杂的心情，她解剖了自己过往的人生，于是，有了这本借由写给女儿，其实写给所有母亲和女儿的勇气书。希望这个时代的女性多一些清醒做自己的认知和底气——我们爱自己的方式，决定了别人爱我们的方式，要把自己当女儿重新养育一回。
作者简介
[韩]郑莲喜
迄今为止，当了55年女儿，26年妻子、妈妈、儿媳，还有20多年的大学教授（任职于韩国重点国立大学之一——群山国立大学）。
为了珍贵的梦想和深爱的家人，她无所畏惧地生活着。但是，当听到25岁的女儿说想要结婚时，她的心里顿时害怕起来，她觉得有些事情必须要让女儿知道——一个女性在婚姻生活中要有怎样的觉悟和行动，才能掌控自己的人生。
于是，她提笔写下《我希望我女儿活得自私》，希望心爱的女儿和这个时代无数的女儿，都能用以自我为中心的思考方式去过人生，将“自己的幸福”放在首位。
Content introduction
A daughter for 55 years, a wife, mother, daughter-in-law for 26 years, and a university professor for more than 20 years, Zheng Lianxi has never given up being herself and the pursuit of dreams because of the secular kidnapping of women.
"Leaving two children to study abroad, do you want a divorce?" "Is the nanny as good as she is?" "Selfish mom/wife!" ... The constant noise will also make her wonder "Am I a good mother and wife?" And then, "first myself, before anyone else," immediately made her firm in her choice. However, when she heard that her 25-year-old daughter wanted to get married, her heart was suddenly afraid, and she felt that there were things that her daughter had to know - how a woman needs to realize and act in a married life in order to take control of her life.
With mixed feelings, she dissected her past life, so she had this book of courage written for her daughter, in fact, for all mothers and daughters. I hope that women in this era have more awareness and confidence to be themselves - the way we love ourselves determines the way others love us, and we should re-nurture ourselves as daughters.
About the author
[Han] Zheng Lianxi
So far, she has been a daughter for 55 years, a wife, mother, and daughter-in-law for 26 years, and a professor at Gunsan National University, one of Korea's major national universities, for more than 20 years.
She lived fearlessly for the sake of her cherished dreams and her beloved family. But when she heard her 25-year-old daughter say that she wanted to get married, her heart was suddenly afraid, and she felt that there were things that she had to show her daughter - how a woman needs to realize and act in marriage in order to take control of her life.
So, she wrote "I hope my daughter lives selfishly", hoping that her beloved daughter and countless daughters in this era can live life in a self-centered way of thinking and put "their own happiness" in the first place.
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