《幸福的婚姻》[内容简介]

　　一对夫妻的离婚率真的可以被准确预测吗？什么样的互动方式会使关系历时越久越亲密？如何防止婚姻危机，又如何拯救一段已经出现危机的婚姻？

　　在这本畅销20余年、横扫22个国家畅销榜榜首的婚姻宝典中，“婚姻教皇”约翰·戈特曼为我们揭示了幸福婚姻的真正秘密。书中，戈特曼通过长达40多年的婚姻关系研究、近700对夫妻的共同参与，用大数据还原婚姻关系的真相，并总结出塑造坚韧婚姻的7个法则，手把手教你创建一桩高情商的、长久的婚姻。近期的一项研究惊喜地发现，仅阅读《幸福的婚姻》并自行完成书中测试和练习的已婚夫妻就能变得更幸福，这种效应在一年后依然存在。

　　本次全新升级版新增6万字，针对当前人们普遍面临的网络分心、家庭角色尤其是女性角色的变化、家务内容的改变等典型问题和冲突，提出了有效的解决方案；戈特曼还结合20余年来的全新研究与大量读者反馈，对7大法则进行了拓展和更新，增添一手的研究数据、细化和明确了诸多观点和方法，并为每条法则更新或增加了信度和效度俱佳的测试，使本书成为更符合当下人们需求的科学指导手册。

　　作者简介

　　[美]约翰·戈特曼

　　享誉世界的“婚姻教皇”

　　美国华盛顿大学心理学名誉教授、西雅图人际关系研究所所长，从事家庭关系方面的研究长达50多年，已使超过38个国家的1000万人以上受益，是享誉世界的婚恋关系、人际关系研究专家，被誉为“婚姻教皇”。

　　人际关系领域非常杰出的心理学者

　　4次荣获美国国家心理健康研究所科学研究者奖章，并获美国婚姻与家庭治疗协会杰出科学研究者奖章、美国家庭治疗学会杰出贡献奖、美国心理协会家庭心理学分会会长奖章。

　　与罗杰斯、荣格齐名的心理大师

　　被《美国心理治疗网络》《美国心理学家》杂志评为20世纪zui后25年间，美国心理治疗师眼中10位具影响力的心理治疗大师之一，与卡尔•罗杰斯、卡尔•荣格共享殊荣。

Happy Marriage [Content Introduction]

Can a couple's divorce rate really be accurately predicted? What kinds of interactions make relationships stronger over time? How to prevent a marriage crisis, and how to save a marriage that is already in crisis?

John Gottman, the "Pope of marriage," reveals the true secrets of a happy marriage in a book that has been selling for more than 20 years and has topped bestseller lists in 22 countries. In the book, Gottman, through more than 40 years of marriage research and the participation of nearly 700 couples, uses big data to restore the truth of marriage relationships, and summarizes the seven rules for shaping a tough marriage, and teach you to create a high EQ, long-term marriage. A recent study surprisingly found that married couples who simply read "The Happy Marriage" and completed the tests and exercises in the book on their own were happier, and the effect persisted a year later.

This new upgraded version adds 60,000 words, and proposes effective solutions to typical problems and conflicts that people are currently facing, such as Internet distraction, changes in family roles, especially women's roles, and changes in housework content; Gottman has also combined more than 20 years of new research with a large number of reader feedback to expand and update the seven Laws, adding first-hand research data, refining and clarifying many ideas and methods, and updating or adding tests for each law with both reliability and validity, making this book more relevant to the needs of people today.

About the author

John Gottman

The world's 'marriage Pope'

Professor emeritus of psychology at the University of Washington, director of the Seattle Institute of Human Relations, engaged in research on family relations for more than 50 years, has benefited more than 10 million people in more than 38 countries, is a world-renowned expert in marriage, human relations research, known as the "Pope of marriage".

A very prominent psychologist in the field of human relations

He has received four Scientific Investigator MEDALS from the National Institute of Mental Health, the Distinguished Scientific Investigator Medal from the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy, the Distinguished Contribution Award from the American Family Therapy Association, and the President's Medal from the American Psychological Association Division of Family Psychology.

A master of psychology as famous as Rogers and Jung

He was named one of the 10 influential psychotherapy masters in the eyes of American psychotherapists in the last 25 years of the 20th century by the American Psychotherapy Network and the American Psychologist, sharing the honor with Carl Rogers and Carl Jung.