内容简介

“你是不是厌男？”每当女性就性别歧视、性暴力等发声时，就会遭到这样的非议。但，厌男真的是这个意思吗？

《我，厌男》为厌男发声，探究背后的心理文化机制与社会背景，进而一针见血地指出，厌女导致的系统性压迫与厌男造成的轻微自尊伤害之间，有着天壤之别，长期被污名化的“厌男”和“厌女”不同，它并不是性别歧视，而是对性别歧视的回应，是对男性特权的愤怒，旨在呼吁女性摆脱羞耻与禁锢，关注由此带来的团结与女性情谊，“想象一种全新的存在方式”，按自己的方式追寻自由与解放。区区104页的小书，却蕴藏着无穷大的能量，波利娜谈论厌男而不止于厌男，将日常生活经验与实际数据串联起来，书写女性处境，是一部四两拨千斤，揭露男性特权、呼吁改变厌女现状的振聋发聩之作。

作者简介

波利娜˙阿尔芒热（Pauline Harmange），1994年生的法国女性主义者、作家。在一家救助女性强奸/性侵犯受害者的机构担任志愿者。她的作品包括《我，厌男》《身处支离破碎之所》及《流产：关于自愿堕胎的私密故事》等。

精彩书评

一本女性主义的离经叛道之作……证明了厌男如何为姐妹情谊开辟了空间。——Monstrograph出版社

《我，厌男》触动了社会的神经。面对性别歧视和性别暴力，作者提出了一种更为直白的应对方式。——《纽约时报》

炽热激情与冷静克制并存的杰作。——《泰晤士报》

打响了反对性别歧视的又一枪。——《泰晤士报》

大快人心……是对女性和女性力量的坚信不疑，是对自由解放的真诚呼唤。——《独立报》

详细地阐释了占全球人口51.9%的男性为何惹人生厌。——《每日电讯报》

一本令人振奋的小书，一口气读完。——《解放报》

交织而团结的女性情谊绽放出愉悦人心的力量。——Elle

《我，厌男》中的论述一针见血，并不过激也不粗暴，当代女性主义的热议话题，如父权制、精神负累、#MeToo运动和女性的联结等都有论及，延续了丽贝卡˙索尔尼特等女性主义作家的一脉。——《新观察家》

其引发的争论不仅聚焦于性别问题……波西米亚式风格，言辞直率，承继了波伏瓦、柯莱特等女性主义者的思想……激烈谴责了男性暴力、特权及其对女性的压迫。——《每日邮报》

讨论性别议题，但不仅限于此。——Popmatters

《我，厌男》提醒我们，如果仅靠礼貌的请求，女性主义先驱们无法做成任何一件事。——inews

Content introduction

"Do you hate men?" This is what happens when women speak out about sexism and sexual violence. But is that really what it means to hate men?

"I, Hate men" for the voice of hate men, explore the psychological and cultural mechanisms and social background behind, and then point out that there is a world of difference between the systematic oppression caused by misogyny and the slight self-esteem damage caused by misogyny, long-term stigmatized "hate men" and "misogyny" are different, it is not gender discrimination, but the response to gender discrimination, is the anger of male privilege, The aim is to call on women to get rid of shame and imprisonment, pay attention to the resulting unity and female friendship, "imagine a new way of being", and pursue freedom and liberation in their own way. A mere 104 pages of small book, but contains infinite energy, Polina talks about hate men and not just hate men, the daily life experience and actual data connected, writing about the situation of women, is a four or two dial thousands of pounds, expose male privilege, call to change the misogynistic status quo of the shocking work.

About the author

Pauline Harmange (born 1994) is a French feminist and writer. Volunteer at an organization that helps women victims of rape/sexual assault. Her books include "I Hate Men," "In the Broken Place," and "MisCarriage: An Intimate Story of Voluntary Abortion."

Wonderful book review

A feminist aberration... Proof of how misogyny opens up space for sisterhood. -- Monstrograph Publishing

"I, Hate Men" touched a nerve in society. In the face of gender discrimination and gender-based violence, the author proposes a more straightforward response. -- The New York Times

A masterpiece of intense passion and calm restraint. -- The Times

Firing another shot in the fight against sexism. -- The Times

Very pleasing... It is a firm belief in women and the power of women, and a sincere call for freedom and liberation. -- The Independent

A detailed explanation of why men, who make up 51.9% of the world's population, are annoying. -- The Daily Telegraph

An uplifting little book, read in one sitting. -- Liberation Daily

The interwoven and united female camaraderie blossomed into a joyful power. ——Elle

The discussion in "I, hate men" hit the nail on the head, not overheated nor rude, and the hot topics of contemporary feminism, such as patriarchy, spiritual burden, the #MeToo movement and the connection of women, have been discussed, continuing a vein of feminist writers such as Rebecca Solnit. -- L 'Obs

The debate is not just about gender... Bohemian style, blunt language, inherited the ideas of feminists such as Beauvoir and Colette... A fierce condemnation of male violence, privilege and the oppression of women. -- The Daily Mail

Discuss gender issues, but not only that. ——Popmatters

"I Hate Men" reminds us that the pioneering feminists couldn't have done anything with polite requests alone. ——inews