作品简介
本书是律师刘任侠的真实案件辩护手记,记录了她九年职业生涯中最难忘的她们:
有个母亲,忍受一辈子家暴,却为了女儿杀掉她最怕的丈夫她问:这样可以保护我最爱的人吗?
有个女儿,她逃离原生家庭,却收到家人全部死亡的消息她问:这样的我值得被爱吗?
有个妻子,她为了配得上优秀的丈夫,执意对自己实施“换脸”手术她问:这样的我他为什么突然不爱了?
刘任侠很难直接回答这些问题,因为答案不是简单的对与错。或许最好的解答方式,就是像她一样,陪伴当事人度过这段难熬的时光,帮助她们学会如何爱与被爱。
本书是全网第一部真实女性群像案件纪实,讲述现实社会中女性的困境与希望。书中看似光怪陆离的记录,实则在描述女性群体的痛苦和自救,书中记录的案件总能在人性的至暗处,看到光亮。
女孩们,无论这一生有多少情感羁绊,能陪你走到最后的,只有自己。
你不必去做女战士,但要学会保护自己。
律师刘任侠:
从业九年,从一家法律援助事务所的助理律师,成长为拥有独立事务所的金牌律师。
她从未循规蹈矩过,从来只接自已感兴趣的案子,遇到不平事即使贴钱也要做下去。
她见证很多女孩困于原生家庭、亲密关系和自我成长等现实问题,也帮助很多人挣脱了这些困境。
她写出这些故事,和百万读者一起读过哭过笑过,被誉为“侠女律师。”
Introduction of works
This book is the real case defense notes of lawyer Liu Renxia, recording the most memorable women in her nine-year career:
A mother, who had endured a lifetime of domestic violence, killed the husband she feared most for her daughter and asked: Is this going to protect the people I love the most?
A daughter who ran away from her family, only to receive the news that all her family had died, asked: Am I worthy of love?
A wife, in order to be worthy of her excellent husband, insisted on her own "face change" surgery, she asked: why did he suddenly not love me?
It is difficult for Liu to answer these questions directly, because the answers are not simple right and wrong. Perhaps the best solution is to accompany the client through this difficult time, as she did, and help them learn how to love and be loved.
This book is the first real female group case documentary on the whole network, telling the plight and hope of women in the real society. The seemingly bizarre records in the book are actually describing the pain and self-rescue of female groups, and the cases recorded in the book can always see the light in the dark of human nature.
Girls, no matter how many emotional ties there are in this life, you can accompany you to the end, only yourself.
You don't have to be a warrior woman, but learn to protect yourself.
Lawyer Liu Renxia:
Nine years of practice, from an assistant lawyer in a legal aid firm, to a gold medal lawyer with an independent firm.
She never followed the rules, never took only the cases she was interested in, and even if she encountered injustice, she would continue to do it.
She has seen many girls trapped in the realities of their families of origin, intimacy and self-growth, and has helped many others escape these difficulties.
She wrote these stories, cried and laughed with millions of readers, and was known as the "chivalrous woman lawyer."