作品简介
我是李一诺。我经常被问到的问题是:“你怎么可以做成那么多事?”
人们只看到光鲜亮丽的标签,其实真实生活都是一地鸡毛。
我的起点,和大家一样,是从一个个“不敢”、一个个“不会”开始的:
____初入职场,不敢开口,不敢成功,不会当领导。
____职场小成,不敢要孩子,不会教育孩子,生活与工作无法平衡。
____人到中年,不敢转场,不敢做梦,不敢想“大问题”。
____生活里琐碎的烦,不会面对;生活的挑战,不敢“臣服”。
最终,知道内心的障碍,但不敢面对真实的自我。所以每一件看上去“做成”的事,背后是十件、百件“没做成”的事。面对未知,我会恐惧;面对竞争,我会犹豫;面对孩子,我会焦虑。
要想走出来,别无他路,只有从不敢到面对。一旦面对,你就会知道,等待皇冠,并不能等来事业成功;放低自己,并不能启发他人;使自己渺小,并不能改变世界;不敢发光,就没有真正活过。
回看我的轨迹,是一次次不得不“面对”每一个“不敢”后,得到力量的旅程。
这本书虽然讲的是我的故事,但对你肯定不陌生。希望你也能在这里找到自己的内心金矿、光和力量。
李一诺,本科毕业于清华大学,获得加州大学洛杉矶分校分子生物学博士。一土教育、“奴隶社会”联合创始人。曾任麦肯锡公司全球董事合伙人,比尔及梅琳达·盖茨基金会中国办公室首席代表。主理线上社区“诺言”(关注内心成长)和“一土全村”(关注家庭养育)。
Introduction of works
I'm Li Yi Nuo. The question I often get asked is, "How do you get so much done?"
People only see the glossy label, in fact, real life is a lot of chicken hair.
My starting point, like everyone else, is from one "dare not", one "will not" start:
____ First enter the workplace, dare not speak, dare not succeed, will not be a leader.
____ Workplace small cheng, dare not have children, will not educate children, life and work can not balance.
____ When people reach middle age, they dare not change, dare not dream, dare not think of "big problems".
____ trivial annoyances in life, will not face; The challenge of life, dare not "surrender".
Ultimately, knowing your inner obstacles, but afraid to face your true self. So for every thing that seems "done," there are ten or a hundred things that are "not done." Face the unknown, I will fear; In the face of competition, I will hesitate; In front of children, I get anxious.
If you want to come out, there is no other way, only from dare to face. Once faced, you will know that waiting for the crown, does not wait for career success; Lowering yourself does not inspire others; You can't change the world by making yourself small. If you do not dare to shine, you have not really lived.
Looking back at my track, it is a journey of strength after having to "face" every "dare" again and again.
This book is my story, but it must be familiar to you. I hope you will also find your own inner gold mine, light and strength here.
Li Yinuo graduated from Tsinghua University and received his PhD in molecular biology from the University of California, Los Angeles. Co-founder of One Soil Education, "Slave Society". He was a global managing partner of McKinsey & Company and chief representative of the China Office of the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation. He manages the online communities "Promise" (focus on inner growth) and "One soil Whole Village" (focus on family rearing).